Well SD10 peed AGAIN. Probably the 3 or 4 time without washing bed or clothes. Daddy finally started to smell the pee through the closed door! So when she got home from school she was in trouble!!!! Finally.
Downside: who had to go to work so who had to sit here and assist in homework, cleanup, fix dinner, make sure she takes her shower, and get her stuff ready for school. That right. I get to be the ONLY bad guy. As usual.
UPSIDE!!!:
She's cleaning EVERYTHING. The kitchen, her whole room so it doesn't smell, all her clothing and bedding. That's right FIRST time SD10 is doing ANYTHING. Oh and dinner... A healthy well rounded meal that is of MY choosing. Spaghetti, salad, Broccoli, bread. (Just so none if you think I'm making something nasty) When about tried to say something, "if you want to talk like that I'm leaving and you can sit in the house ALONE on time out" (never would but she terrified of being left alone) all of the sudden we have nothing but nice things to say! Then to top it off I made daddy the bad guy! I said "I don't want you to be grounded from going to your moms! I wanted you to go to her house today! Its your dad that's making it so you have to stay here"
All in all I feel like I'm coming out ahead! Yay for the victories!