My selfish SS is at it again, but I really hate when he does it to his own father!

Yesterday was awful because he supposedly forgot it was Father's Day and decided to make that everyone elses problem. I had booked a trip for us to go sailing for a few hours at noon, so since we all slept in I decided we needed to really get things in gear to get DH ready to go and SD10 was very helpful in getting things packed, but SS just laid in bed and took forever to get dressed and did nothing that asked him to do to help his father.

Since we were running late for brunch we decide to drive closer to the sailing center and go to a diner there instead, but SS starts whining about how starving he is. His sister got a banana as a snack before we left and I told him he could've done the same, but he starts whining like a four year old how nobody told him we were hot having breakfast at home, even though that was the first thing I said to him when I woke him up!DH was livid already and pulled in to the first diner he could find and then SS leaves half the food he ordered after he was "starving"and starts rushing us to leave!

When we go sailing he starts yelling at his dad that the wind is scaring him and yelling at me to sit on the side of the boat he wants me to sit on and yelling at his sister because she is making a slurping sound while sucking on an ice cube. Yes, SS is on the autism spectrum, but he is very high functioning and actually prides himself on "being like Bart Simpson", as if thaat was something to be proud of. He is just a jerk, that expects everyone to bend over backwards to suit him because all of the slightest things "bother" him "extremely". Whatever. It really just depends on the day because in the past these same things would never have bothered him.

DH was miserable with SS barking orders and then whining when DH told him to be positive and quit making the sail about himself. When we got home and had a nice dinner I cooked, SS and SD argues about who would have to clean the dishes! Its fathers day for crying out loud! So DH finally told SS he had to do them, but his did a terrible job and nearly broke a dish throwing it in the dishwasher out of anger.

After dinner DH wanted to walk the dog to the park, but SS started complaining yet again and took the dog from DH for not holding her the right way. DH had it and left us at the park after turning around and going home by himself to watch the NBA finals.

When we got home SS just whined some more about how it wasn't really a fun day for him, but that it was okay because at least tomorrow (today) he could stay home and do what he wanted. :sick:

I cannot stand living with the=is kid anymore, and it breaks my heart because I know DH loves him but he can't take it either.