for the love of all things sane!!!
boy am I glad I found this site yesterday, because I NEED TO VENT today!! I just got notice from bf of my bkids that he is "uncomfortable" sending them to our house anymore for visitation, and that he is going to try and thwart the next visit for spring break. Why? Because evil bm of my skids has contacted him and told him all sorts of nasty hateful things about my SO. and of course bf has no problem believing ever word, and dishing out the lies and hate on me back to bm! How in the heck is it that two people who have not shared our lives in a positive way in several years know soooo much about our character and livelihood?? And who the hell does BM think she is to contact my ex? How'd she get his info? Well, she asked skids where bkids lived, looked up my court docket, found bf name, and googled his contact info!! BALLS!!! Yet, if I try to communicate with her so she can get to know me (she claims her gripe is that she doesnt know me), she screams that I have no right to talk to her. GRRRR!!!!!!
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and to make thinks worse, I
and to make thinks worse, I just broke the chair.... while sitting on it. That really hurt. Maybe that was life's indirect way of giving me a swift kick in this ass for bitching so much??
Yeah, its just a scare tactic
Yeah, its just a scare tactic to add stress. Like I've experienced in the past (more than I wish), bm or bf will make allegations to CPS or to courts and it will get dismissed and thrown out (after expensive trips to court).
They have been divorced for
They have been divorced for years and there is a court order. she is even remarried and still just a spiteful bitch with all things to do with SO. I have kinda already written off trying to let her get to know me. She lost her chance. Screw her. But her going after my ex and therefore messing with my own visitation schedule is a whole other level of bitch that she has achieved! It is a shame and very sad. I wish there were something legally I could do!
The only thing, legally that
The only thing, legally that you can do (that I know of) is to take the BF back to court for contempt for violating the visitation order (you DO have a visitation order, right?)
Of course I do. And a lawyer.
Of course I do. And a lawyer. Unfortunately, I have to wait for him to actually deny me visitation. He has a history of threatening, trying to get me to jump through hoops, all to way up to the minute he boards the kids on the plane. And then after they arrive, he sends repeated texts and emails about how my fa,ily has no right to see the kids and that if I leave my town with them he is going to call the cops for kidnapping. blah blah blah. I go through the same thing each time. I know my rights, and I dont break any laws. So F him. lol
Oddly, my SO goes through the EXACT same thing with BM. I swear, if BM weren't already remarried, I'd tried to hook her up with bf. Then Id buy them an all expense paid trip to a tropical island, and then blow the island up. ha!