Yesterday while H was going to drop off SD 7 to BM I suddenly was aware of the date. BM, a while ago, had agreed to keep SD for one weekend a month, at the end of the month...this past weekend was definately the last of the month and SD definately was with us.....wtf?
So I now realize that if I am not the one to say anything about it, it's not going to happen. It pissed me off cos now I have one more thing to clarify and worry about amongst everything else. Again, this is totally a situation where if it were the other way around, BM would bust a nut.
Now, I thought about emailing her and asking her if she could keep SD next weekend, but that would make it the first weekend of the month and no longer the last. BM already agreed to have SD the last weekend of next month so...again, I look and feel like a push over and I just have to let this one slide.
Plus, right now, I do not want to start anything with BM because her wedding is mid next month. Which was another issue because SD cannot have anything to do with her mother the few days before her wedding.....god forbid. I had to move myself, my husband, and my 7 month old baby out of our old apartment BY MYSELF along with SD there not making the job any easier.
I would just love to know why she feels so strongly that since it's apparantly so easy to toss her daughter off on us when she's got shit to do, she's entitled to 'time off.' SD is her only daughter, (hopfully it stays that way) I do not know anyone who gets to have every friggin weekend off and random days when it's conveinient for HER. I have a 1 year old, SD 7, and soon I'll have a new baby in July. I'm going to have my hands even more full and BM says that this is not her concern.
I swear to the good lord above that if she tries to pull a week long vacation this summer WITHOUT her daughter again I will raise hell. This chick has to learn not to go out every night and get shit-faced without her daughter because its conveinient.
I guess this all has to start with me. I'll admit it, I bite my tongue so many times its discusting. This is typically a situation where I'd have to do what my mother would do.
Not stand for any bull.
Sorry, I rambled on....but I feel much better.