So yesterday we found out that BM wants spousal support and join custody. She has supervised visits right now because the kids were taken away when she gave birth to the youngest because he had meth in his system!! She was doing drugs while pregnant!! So she wrote this whole long statement about how its all my SO's fault she did drugs and cannot support herself. She said he gave her no possible way of getting mechanical skills to get a higher pay check. My SO put her into massage therapy school and his sister cosigned her school loan. How is that not supportive or somehow making you uncapable to fend for yourself. By the way she did not finish massage school because one month from graduation she and a friend got caught stealing from other students. She was not caught red handed but other students said she was with the girl they saw. She never went back to school because she did it. And she has not been paying the loan and my SO's sister is getting hounded by creditors. She wrote that she did drugs because she was depressed due to my SO committing adultery. She said they separated in Dec of 2007 and he committed adultery in May of 2008!!?? If you separated in 07 how is he cheating in 2008? So she says my SO cheated after they were separated and that caused her to use meth and the baby to be born with meth in his system. Okay wow! She wants joint custody because she no longer needs supervised visits. She loves and cares for her kids. Okay they why doesnt she want full custody or 50/50 custody. She doesnt want to pay the sitter to supervise them. She is all about the no paying and everything is everyone elses fault. She also said she needs spousal support due to her medical condition. She is extremely overweight so if anything is weight related diabetes or any other obese type disease how can he be responsible when being that overweight is a choice. Idk I am so irritated by her.