SO CSU finally got an address for BM. I'm assuming they served papers on her because we received ours yesterday. I manage the finances and the paperwork in this house so I'm filling out DH's income/expenditure report.

I have listed SS12 (from BM1), SD (BM2 whom SO pays CS for) and BD2 (who is SO & I's child).

Now, do I list the full amount of "rent" and BD's daycare, or just his half? There is a separate question asking how many people live in our home in addition to SO, so I listed 3. SO and I make roughly the same amount of money +/- 1k per year. I've listed his car (but it's in my name-technically it's my car, when SO's truck died the Pink Slime Death a couple of months ago my dad spotted me the money to buy an old lady car to get him back/forth to work because the truck is now worthless and SO is so upside down on it, we voluntarily surrendered it to the loan holder. Since SO and I are not married and my father spotted me the money, I registered it in my name to protect the investment since SO and I are not married-just incase) technically, we are making payments on SO's car to my father-does that count as "debt you are paying"?.

I have also compiled paperwork from BM2 from last year when they went to court to establish insurance (NYS doesn't give you a choice-BM2 is on Medicaid and the DSS requires the NCP's income be examined by the court to cover insurance premiums). His CS order in BM2's case is directly taken out of SO's paycheck (for ease) but only covers the insurance premium. He also pays her additional monies each week for actual support that is not court ordered (I have evidence to prove this as well).

Now, SO paid BM1 Child Support off the books as well. He has some inconsistent proof of it, and BM never took him to court for CS because she's got better things to do (obviously) like drink and locate a sugar daddy. Will this come up? We have had physical custody of SS11 since April of 2016. The court order reads that SO has physical custody with open and liberal visitation as agreed upon by both parities, and they have joint legal custody (SO did not want to take that from BM). The whole thing is 1 1/2 pages and so far the vagueness has worked to our advantage. BM has seen SS for a total of less than 24 hours since January of this year. She doesn't pay for ANYTHING including school clothing. She once gave SO $3 for gas and $50 once. She then bought SS a pair of shoes for Easter. That is the extent of her support over the last year.

The appointed magistrate also oversaw Uncle Jackass's CS cases and he stuck it to UJ (which sucks, I don't think it's fair, but he's been an ass as of recent, so what goes around comes around) but I'm nervous that this judge doesn't care for men, so I'm just trying to make sure I have every base covered.

SOS.