I found my soulmate in April 2010!! We met on Facebook actually but found out we'd been eachothers lives and didn't even know it!! We graduated from the same highschool the same year 2001! He was everything my heart and soul needed! I had been married before and had 2 children in that relationship and shortly after I found I was pregnant with my 2nd child I filed for divorce. Long story short that marriage didn't work Bc he was caught cheating, doing drugs, and running up credit cards in my name to watch porn online. Anyway it was years later and I had sworn to myself I'd never marry again. But on may 22 2010 I eloped with the man of my dreams! My kids just took to him like a duck to water! They love him and know he's a good dad for them seeing their real dad comes and goes when he pleases. Then I introduce to you his 6 year old son. My Son is 3 and daughter 5. Ever since day one ive noticed my step son is a little messed up. He acted like he never got attention, didn't want to be around other kids, kinda of withdrawn, or shoved up our butt. He was attached to his dads hip and refused to be any further. Well when he started becoming more comfortable he became attached to me in a way as if he was my own son. We started having problems with him verbally abusing and threatening my daughter. He would bully her so bad she kept coming to us and telling and my husband I felt was chalking it up to sibling rilvary and that my daughter was just a tattler all kids act up like that. I didn't know Bc I was an only child never had to deal with this before and her and my son would never fight like this :(. It upset me but I told my daughter to be string ignore him and still ALWAYS come to me if theres any problems. She agreed and always did come to me. Well onto of my step son bullying my daughter my two best friends caught the step son taking off my daughters clothes In a corner in her room! We confronted him about it and explained to him we do not do that and he seemed to understand. He still bullied her and I was just getting madder and madder that my husband wasn't taking this serious. Then my daughter came to me with this. This was Kaylas complete testimony  
She was lying down when hunter came into her room she said he asked her if he could "hurt" her girl parts and she said no and rolled over he then shoved his foot into her girl stuff really hard she said, then he took his knee and shoved it really hard on her girl part then he proceded to make a fist and push in to her girl parts as well as his hand she said he scared her not to tell by hitting her in the chest sitting  on  it until she couldn't breath she  said Luke (3year old)tried to pull him off her when hunter was sitting on her. She came to me after we had taken him home. THANK GOD she came to me! I was physically sick and upset. I took her to the dr the next day to have her checked and make sure she was ok. I talked to the dr about how he'd been acting. Kayla told the dr what he does and says to her. He's threatened to kill her and Lukas with a friend named Jacob to help. Told her he didn't want any of us to be his family he just wants his father. He made a comment, "hey wouldn't it be cool to slice up a baby." that comments was made while he was starring at my husband and mine newborn son. The dr said his behavior is not normal and to seek help Bc it seems he may be being abused or seeing someone abused. When I confronted his mother about his behavior her exact words were, "well he is a liar and I worry about him being around Allie (her 2yearold girl) she also stated her son had Been hanging out with a girl that was recently raped by her brother. His mom has yet to take him to get council. So in the mean time waiting to find out what's wrong with him I've chosen to keep my kids away from him period. I'm not risking him hurting them! I feel horrible for not stopping the bullying sooner but since this happened just the mere thought of him coming over sickens me. I fear for my newborn safety I stay with my baby constantly I'm afraid to even go to the bathroom without him. I really do not like my step son and the longer this goes on and it's not fixes I start to feel I hate him. I honestly feel like if his parents don't fix his abusive behavior I'll have to end my marriage. I don't want that I love my husband SOOOO much and I feel bad for him Bc he's torn. He loves my kids SOOOO much and seems like he's on our side but that's his son. So I decided to send my kids away to gma and papa when step son is here so that he can have time with his dad hoping this will help him but it doesn't seem to help and our family being SOOOO split up just rips my heart out :.( help please