Am I Missing Something??!!!
Anyone feel free to pipe in at any moment-
What is it that these BM don't understand about the role of the step mother?
Do they not see that we love their X's and that they kid just comes with the package?
Is it really appropriate or necessary to send email after email after email stating that new wife is a Criminal (oh what a sin I got arrested when I was younger, oh what an even worse sin I got over it and on with my life) and that uhhhhh I have had it here!
DH found my apartment app that I had signed last month when I was rreally really thinking about leaving, and when I thought that was what he wanted. He found it today where I had hidden it. I have had it!!! I have my own children, my own soon to be career.....whatever!
SO sick of this. I hate coming to the email I hate my computer and I really hate this role that I fell into unsespectingly.
I ope this is over soon.
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I really do think
that most all of the BM's here, have the attitude of "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else to have him either". Dh's BM is this way, even though she will deny it. Over the years, she's done just about anything and everything to break us up. Obviously hasn't worked, but at one point I felt really defeated. I does sound like you feel this way. I wish there was something I could say to help you feel better, but there isn't. All I can say is that time will help. Our BM doesn't bother us much anymore, but I NEVER let my guard down. Can you block her from contacting you? Set it as SPAM and then you won't even get it. Is DH mad about the apartment application? Why? Hugs to you!
Jealousy
All I'm asking for is some good old honesty served up fresh when I ask for it without the side order of hot tongue and cold shoulder!
Yes. DH is mad about the
Yes. DH is mad about the apartment app. He pretends like he doesn't know things were "at that level."
Yeah, things have been at that level for so long now it isn't even funny. I wish I could say "If things don't go in our favor (whatever that would mean) I am out of here."
You know something, I feel like I left a long time ago.
I haven't been emotionally available for anyone for a long time and I dont plan to be. Once things start going sour I shut off.
I won't put up with some stupid woman BM or no BM I will just not deal with stupidity. She says stuff about her myspace and tatto business and mural painting business all being fake. Yea, try to screw with peoples heads to cover up your own insanity.
She just called here about 10 seconds ago. She had told DH that SS was coming here this afternoon during mediation. She just simply said "Uhhh Im picking SS up from school today." I said oh well where is he going during mediation?" she said "None of your business"
RREAAALLYY??? None of my damn business???
Goooodddddd oooonnnnneeeee.......SEE what I mean.
No more. No more DH working 2 jobs, telling me not to leave that things will calm down.
No more DH leaving work early bc he is stressed out to the point of having a heart attack, no more more more more morem oremormeomreomomroemroem
Im F******** sick of this!!!!! I want aaway from this man and the monster he left behind!! She is not my monster!
She is not my anything!! Just a pain in the worlds ass, a lazy mother who wants to see people suffer well let DH suffer alone!
Someone suggested having my meds altered to make it through this-Nope. there isn't enough medicince in this worl to get me through this, nor do I wish to alter my medicine.
I wish to be gone! That app is getting turned in today.
I won't have any furniture or anything but I do not care.
You know what I am going to go dig in my front yard right now I have to get the hell out of this house beofer I do soemthing stupid.
I started digging in the yard to do some landscaping, won;t be here to see it finsihed but I guess I can at least work on it and act like Im chopping something else while chopping at the ground!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH insanity.
I will tell you what worked for me
Never speak to the woman again. You didn't marry her, she's not your problem. I had to do the same with BM. She still blames me for everything that goes wrong with SD, but she doesn't say it to my face. She says it to my husband and, I'm sure, to SD.
Not my problem! If she calls, I don't answer the phone. If she comes to my house, I don't speak to her. I have NO contact with her whatsoever. If my husband was stupid enough to marry her, that has nothing to do with me.
It really does help!
don't feel bad Jen
I get the same treatment because I was arrested once when I was younger...she rubs it in FH's face all the time....she's tried to rub my past in our faces and really it doesn't bother me..it's the only evidence she had in her custody case...that I had a misdemeanor pot possession charge from YEARS ago and that I was once a "stripper" years before I had my daughter. Who gives a crap?! I don't regret anything I've ever done...
and Robinson is right...BM's don't want their exes anymore but they don't want them to find anyone else either...She can start all the crap she wants, I'm not going anywhere! Just don't deal with her anymore, she's not your problem! Keep your chin up