Eventually comes to light.
Yesterday I "came across" some e-mails that were sent to various teachers at the school SS and my kindergartner attend. One to the reading teacher my BD will have next yer (this is a 2nd gd rdg teacher, she will be in 1st bt is very adv) a 3rd grade teacher (in whose classroom I was the room parent for SS since he begged me to be and his BM had NEVER EVER been involved in his classroom stuff like parties Ftrips whatever), about 15 to the 4th grade teacher SS had, and even more to this years teacher. I am going to cut and paste a 3 choice emails.

DH asked BM 3 times to meet with him B4 mediation so that they could talk about arrangements for their son. He has come up with 2 different parenting plans. Both different, but good ideas. Their child is 11 years old, and they have never had a sit down conversation about him. He is asking her to do this and she asks him to send the ideas over e-mail bc she is just "too busy" to sit down tomorrow afternoon and talk. Now, mind you it was made very apparent to her that I would not be there, an that I would even watch SS while they met somewhere local. She will not commit.

Well I took a week off of writing to see if I could come up with some ways to vent or to work the issues in my life out in a different way.
We recently redid both kids bedrooms-H painted and acted like the job was finished, so I spent the entire week washing clothes, putting them in the new dressers, closets, putting away toys, organizing everything. He never lifted another finger.

Just called the school to give the office my new ph# so they could update my daughter's info. They know me bc I volunteer and asked if I wanted SS info chg as well. I said not if it means someone can get a hold of our # from the teacher, and they said they would tell the teacher not to give it out.
The lady in the office then informs me that she won't be able to talk to the teacher today bc SS is on a field trip to the State Museum, WHAT??!!!