SD wishes she were never born..whaaaaa
I feel about 100% sure another poster already made this the subject line a topic so I don't remember exactly who created the created the blog so I'll give credit where it's due to whoever it was.
Went along the lines of something like her adult stepchild posting on Facebook or something whining about how two people had sex in the 90s and now I got to pay bills you know the whole thing I wish I never born because I have to be responsible for myself..blah blah blah that kind of stuff. it didn't come as a huge surprise to me such sayings are that familiar because it must be a line straight out also perpetually unsatisfied stepchild Bible. I know we say that they don't come with a manual but sounds like there's there's some kind of Playbook due to All The Uncanny similarities. My 30-year-old stepchild is certainly no exception cause she still has fed me the same lines before even at her age. She actually said that her life isn't fair because she didn't want to come into such a cold cruel world but they made her you know her mommy and daddy who she blames for everything to this day over something no one has a say in. sorry but what the f*** does that even supposed to mean?such a ridiculously stupid thing to say. She needs to get a grip and to seriously get over herself because I don't know of one single human being or anything alive on this Earth that has actually asked permission to be born. Honestly where does she get off believing that she is so special and exceptional that should be the one person in this world who should be able to control entering into it. Like it's supposed to be a request. Yeah well guess what those two young kids she brought into this world into a into another web of her generational dysfunction with a thug jailbird baby daddy with a track record for domestic abuse.god knows what else and slept around and probably has kids all over the town that he probably doesn't even know about yet. None of those kids sure as shit didn't ask for that either .whatever. in the end we all know that most cases when dealing with toxic people like this who are top card carrying members of the victim Club that it doesn't matter what someone does or doesn't do try to make these people feel better about being present in the world and having to show up and function like anybody else. It's not even worth attempting to please folks like this anymore. Another word of advice is that you need to stop being around people who have gained from your help and kindness only to turn around and all brand new as if you never did anything for them. I swear these folks are just so ungrateful that you can go all out your way and make sure they get exactly what they want and need all the time and they still wouldn't be satisfied in the end. You can go up and get the Sun the Moon handful of stars present to them and they still eventually find something to complain about..still not good enough. We know these skid marks as well as other unrepreciative types of people are fickle as hell anyway.I mean they love you the next day they want you to stay away from them. you can't keep up. That's why I'm perfectly happy to keep living my best life to make sure I'm good and solid with myself instead of jumping through hoops to make sure they're good instead. Also more than happy to just leave these folks where they're at in their own little miserable corner of the universe and have them pout all they like because they can't accept that the universe doesn't revolve around their feelings about their existence or experience in it..
Side note. The other killer is that she spews she can't be selfish right now concerning her disdain for being born. Hinting she cant make an exit plan.because of her kids..which..I know what's done is done..but are the outcomes of her selfish decisions she made fully conscious for her agenda. .I'm not trying to be insensitive about anyone's feelings about whether or not someone wants to be on this planet. Even though no one should be trying to use that as another guilt tripping or attention seeking tool..which has been par the course for SD in my experience. Another word of advice I've heard is that no one should be making you feel responsible or at fault over whether or not they choose to be here...which sd has been known to try to pin on me too..so once again..it's old hat.so forgive me for taking it all in with a grain of salt...
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She is 30
Tell her to get a life
I pretty much did convey that
I pretty much did convey that to her and DH. Enough is enough at this age.
The whining
My SD63 whines, too. So poor, so unlucky, so unhealthy, waaa, waas, waaa. I was cleaning out one of DH87's drawers. There were many thank you notes from her, I'm putting them all in his "Memories" drawer. I guess each was after he left her money under the mat (to keep me from knowing). One contained the line, "Things can't get any worse".. Waaa, waaa, waaa, but an effective guilty trip to get $ from DH.
I've seen similar meme's.. I
I've seen similar meme's.. I have also seen one "some women burned their bras in the 70's... now I have to work for a living".. kind of thing.
Sort of tongue in cheek I guess... a bit attention seeking.. whining about how adulting is soooo hard.. oh well.. we are all here.. we do or die right?
They did not exist so were not even a thought much less had a
They did not exist so were not even a thought much less had a choice.
I think with these types that a firm STFU, Grow UP, and stop your whinging is in order with these. That a get an F'n job and extricate your head from your ass and stop being a nauseating detriment to the species. The clearest massage that they can get is that no one gives a shit about what they have to say or about their fee fees.
Is in order.
Giving a shit about their fee fees is a waste of bliss for those who are actually living their best lives.
IMHO of course.
As for luck, that occurs where preparation and capability meet opportunity. These types don't prepare nor are they capable. They would rather go all in on the not fair cruel world victim journey. Let them surf down the toilet bowl vortex they create in their own lives. The key is to not let them suck us down that vortex with them.