For anyone who has been following my days past events.

BM called back, BF asked her if she knew about the knife incident. He told her what the girls said and that 14 yo. threatened them into not telling.

BM proceeds to go nuts. (I was right, her 1st reaction was pissed that the girls told us and not her.) She then goes off on the defensive, "are you telling me I'm a bad Mother. It's because you left us. you are trying to take the girls away from me, I'll never let you see the girls, ect...."

BF exploded!!! "don't go there, stop it, you dumb bitch, I CAN take the girls from you.!"

After a few hang ups, things got calmer. She kept going off on tangents. It was as if he was talking to a 5 y.o., he kept having to bring her back to the problem at hand.

For the past year BF has always let BM handle the family counselors and therapists. And this is not the first time they have discussed the 14 yo. being removed from the home. BF demanded it this time. He made her call who ever she deals with to find out how and how soon this can happen. Apparently, no-one works on the weekends and Monday is a holiday. So, nothing can be done until Tuesday. BF & BM made a pack not to say anything to the 14 yo. And that BM will let her stay at her friends house for a few days since they are on winter break.

Now this is where is gets stupid. The 12 yo. is at our house. BM just found out 2 hours ago that her other Daughter pull a knife on her. DO YOU THINK SHE ASKED TO SPEAK WITH HER??? NO. the conversation is winding down, BF asks BM, Do you want to talk to her? They get on the phone together for about 2 minutes. BM wants to take her shopping today. 12 yo. said yes, but she wants to comeback here tonight. She said ok.
This am FB drops her off and the only thing BM can say is, "You know you can't just lower the support, you have to ask the court."
HELLO. You think there are other more important things going on here.