Hey everyone! It's been a while since i have posted. Things have been going pretty well despite the usual drama from BM. My clomid treatments still havent been working and with my busy work schedule, i havent been able to really pursue medical treatment in that area lately. SD is about to turn 3 in two weeks! She already knows how to write all of her letters and spell/write/read 3 letter words and if you ask her who taught her she says i did! The crying and the asking "why" has been getting worse whenever she has to go back to her BM. Breaks our hearts but we always encourage her that she will go spend time with her mom and will have fun and she will be back here before she knows it. Most recent happening is my SD has seizures. She has a medication we give her to prevent it. We just found out during last drop off that her mother ran out of the meds so DH called the dr asap to order new ones and send it to her pharmacy in her town. Well 2 days later he asked her if she got it and she said no but she will in a couple days. He told her that having that medicine could be the difference between life and death for SD and she responded with "Ok DH, why do u act like u dont trust me? shes in great hands! I'm her mother so i know if my baby needs it or not and right now she is showing no symptoms of a seizure so she is fine without it" DH got very mad because her seizures can come out of nowhere and without that on hand it really could be the difference between life and death for her. but of course there was no convincing BM.
we either think she doesnt have a ride to the pharmacy or she doesnt have the money for it (meds are close to $70) Either way its really irresponsible and i feel like as a mother thats not a smart thing to do!

DH even offered to pay for it and she said shes got it and to stop undermining her authority as SD's mother.

sigh