Ok..Since i last was here a lot has happened. Me and now 16 daughter of BF are now talking and things seem to be fine. During a recent Psych Appt with BD she told counselor that she wishes to live with us when we buy a house. I agreed to this as long as she is not arguing with BM and it is because she wants to be with us and not as to hurt her BM. Since then BM and his 16yo have fought a few times and she has been kicked out of house 2 times now. They have reconciled after a few days and things seem fine currently.