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BM has been calling my DH

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Submitted by laurels4u on Sat, 07/26/2008 - 9:31pm

It seems she wants the kid's personal belongings and wants DH to pack it all up and drive it half way for her to pick up. DH doesn't know that I know this. I listen to his voicemails specifically for reasons like this because he selectively chooses what to tell me and what NOT to tell me. So apparently, he doesn't want me to know she's been calling to request the kid's stuff. To me, this isn't a big deal. The stuff is the kid's.

The Shrine

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Submitted by laurels4u on Thu, 07/03/2008 - 9:02am

Another person's blog got me thinking about this, and I'd like some opinions. Some of you may remember me saying that DH's son abruptly moved out in the middle of April. The kid hasn't been seen since then. DH barely talks to him and is very adamant that the kid won't ever come back to visit. When the kid left, his room was atrocious, and it still is. There are dirty glasses and dishes in there which are now growing mold. His overflowing garbage can hasn't been emptied. His hamper is full of musty, dirty clothes.

Did your DH go after BM for CS

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Submitted by laurels4u on Tue, 06/24/2008 - 8:29am

Several SMs, I'm included, have been posting lately about their DHs, CS, and BMs not paying CS. What I'm wondering is, how many of you had custody of your steps but your DHs never forced the BMs into paying CS? So often we hear about these BMs never paying CS but I'm also curious as to how many of these fathers actually went to the appropriate legal agency, filed for support, and had BMs wages attached? My DH certainly didn't so for 4-1/2 years, BM paid for nothing, not one bloody cent. Now that DH's kid decided to move back to BMs house, DH's paying CS, and guess what?

Not really a Step issue but DH issue

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Submitted by laurels4u on Mon, 06/16/2008 - 4:19am

Anyone else have a truly needy, clingy, attention seeking DH? Even when his son still lived with us, he was the exact same way. He's driving me nuts. I have a huge, important test tomorrow to pass my Masters in Ed. program and he's been putting me on a huge guilt trip about studying for it because God forbid, I'm not giving him every spare second of my attention.