This week night of my birthday SO said some stupid stuff, pretty much he was not going to punish his kids for bad school behavior like he always does because "its my last night with the kids before they go to their mom's"
Well my ds was a jerk last night and I'd planned to take away an activity we were going to today and had even got exh to let me keep him a little extra to do it. Instead this morning before So had to leace I tols ds to be ready on time and when SO wuestioned I used his quote "I don't want to punish him before he goes to his dad's" SO of course said that was bull and I said no its not its exactly how you handled your kids so it should be okay.
Yeah he apologized and my ds apologized for being a jerk and had even done his chores befoee anyone got up so I'm still taking him just like SO didn't punish his kids at least mine tried to rectify his behavior.