DH, realized he was letting his son down. We had just had a discussion on the whole situation of not letting BM have anymore overnights (he had already agreed to let her keep him Christmas break) after the break till she gets her shit in gear and he told her if her husband laid a hand or any other object on thier son as punishment or out of anger she would be back to supervised visits. Well tonight DH got a call from her husband to get his kid, BM and he had gotten into a fight when he found a cheating app on her phone and other suggestions she either was or was looking to cheat, told her to wipe her phone and apps and they'd move on or he was taking thier daughter and leaving. She apparently flipped out, cops got called she threatened suicide and my coworkers loaded her up in the ambulance to the hospital for a psych hold....again. This was exactly why she was found not fit for custody of SS. DH told me he was sorry he didn't listen sooner and is currently on the phone with cps, SS has obviously been crying and hugged me when he got home though DH said he had been asleep and didn't know what was going on. I guarantee he heard plenty the kids sleep in the living room! So counciling for sure as soon as I can get him an appointment I know he's going to think his moms abandoned him again and that somehow it's his fault. Breaks my heart.