So irritated
Ss14 was not supposed to be home!! Ahhh
Ss14 went to MIL. He was supposed to be there till monday!
My cousin- close one- is visiting! She moved out of state a few years ago, but we see her son all the time- he flies in over summers to see my uncle. Atfirst we were going to meet her eat breakfast, but plans changed, so she said she would come to house. I was glad about that because babygirl does okeyy in restaurants, but she has her limits. Plus for me the visit would be more relaxed, not rushed eating and talking.
Plus, i thought ss would not be here.
Ugh well after we worked that all out, dh comes back from store- needed milk- he gets settled then asks if ss came in. Man my heart sank, whole mood ruined.
Apparently MIL agreed to watch her neices kid and cramped ss good time- of course ss comes in and asks if my son is still here- yup...so i guess his mood is ruined too.
Only thing i can hope for is he stays up super late, and sleeps while they visit.
I did not want him to be apart of this since he hates anything to do with my fam.
Maybe they do not eat- and we still go out to eat.. . But they have not seen new house, so im sure they will eat, and ill make the best of it showing them the house.
Sigh... my luck...effing mil...
- Ladystark's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
He does not want to do
He does not want to do anything with "my family". We have been around him since he was 6, and he still says dumb crap.. why do i have to go? Its HER family not mine....he has met my cousins kid almost every summer and every summer we get "who?" My son was 6 and ss was 11!! 11 and my son was explaining to ss WHO my cousins son was!! And he still does it with my sisters his aunts- who??
And its been worse since after he turned 12...at 13 we planned an oc trip with my parents, he called mil and asked if he could stay with her for the week so he did not have to be with strangers!! Ughh
He calls MIL all the time to avoid interaction with "my family".
Im sorry im childish and irritated, but i dont want him here faking and being apart of it...then they leave and i have to hear dumb crap like glad their gone...or whatever rude thing he wants to say.
Or him coming out of room being nosey, inviting my cousin up to his room but my son is not allowed, or the come downstairs for drink, run upstairs slam door, then 5 mintues later back down nosey, then back up slams door, repeat.
He sounds like a real pill.
He sounds like a real pill. Tell him you’re always “glad he’s gone” when he leaves.
Lol. I need to! Its such a
Lol. I need to! Its such a nice time when he is not here!
Starkie - you have the
Starkie - you have the solution right in front of you Hon, tell SS I have my family visiting and they are strangers, it would be best for you staying with your family }:)
DH will get an ear full believe me, when ever one is gone, I will tell him, listen dude, if it's not our wee-end with SS it's not our week-end, I plan according to his schedule not to make him uncomfortable, and you are his parent, stop allowing SS to decide where he will be over week-ends.
Its to late, to do that, they
Its to late, to do that, they are coming this morning, not much time to drop him off- if he is,even awake- which i hope he just sleeps through their visit!
He is on that teen- play video games super late sleep till 1 or 2... which thats fine by me.
He is really weird...ive
He is really weird...ive tried through the years, and i know some of it is attention, but im so tired of this teens mouth.
Dh sucks as a parent- they way they talk ss is in charge...he asks ss to much if he wants to do this or that, ive never been around a kid, now a teen with so much power.
It wont bother them, it just would have been a more relaxing time for me. Oh well ill make the best of it. They wont be here long, they fly out today..so shake it off!
Its just crazy how he can bring my whole mood down!
I can commiserate on this. My
I can commiserate on this. My teen skids are moody, socially awkward and say rude/idiotic crap all the time. When I was informed that they would be coming to MY family's Christmas celebration, any excitement and anticipation I had for the evening turned into anxiety and annoyance. They don't considered me and mine family, they treat my DH like scum, and they haven't been part of our family for more than a year as they have refused to come on DH's weeks. But they come around to use me and mine for gifts. The whole situation is maddening and yeah, it's hard to not let it affect your mood.