Im soooo irritated.

Dh was working late.

He called to tell me he might have to grab dinner, eat without him.

Ok no prob.

I was not feeling like making dinner anyway, baby girls congestion is breaking up so she has had a runny snot face all day...she has been between trying to play and fussy.

Ss comes down, and as im telling him the dinner situation, his friends come to the door. Its 6pm. He asks to eat when he comes back in. I say yeah, come back about 7:20ish.

So when dh comes home he tells me ss called him and asked him if he could ride bikes with his friends, and to be back by 8pm.

I said "hmm thats funny, i told him to be back by 720...but i guess he did not feel the need to tell you that. Sounds like he did not even talk to me."

Dh "no he called me and asked if he could ride somewhere with his friends, then i said its getting kind of late? Well be back by 8pm." "He said ok" thats it.. i did not know you told him anything, you did not tell me these NEW rules...

Me " whoa! No new rules, and you dont think him not telling you that i said 720 is weird? That he did not tell you that?"

Then he gets all pissy starts going on about how im arguing with him after his long day at work.

Ughhh i do not want to argue! I do not even want to talk, deal with, or be around ss!! Like get a clue man, no one wants to argue, im informing you of what i said! he is in defend ss mode, then i go into defend myself mode.

So we kind of go silent- im irritated by other things dh says, then ss walks in, dh says when "we talked on the phone and i said 8pm that would have been a nice time to tell me mrs stark said a different time." Ss-ok....

Thats it then he starts making baby noises at babygirl. I go upstairs to just get away from both of them.

As im upstairs ss-in a lowtone- says something to dh. Dh says something but all i hear is "she is bentoutta shape over the time" when she tells you something thats it, you need to listen. I hear ss "uh but dont you over rule her? Your in charge of me right?"

Dh- pause- that is true but when i have to work late you have to listen to her, what she says goes. (Or something like that) then i hear a HUFFY PUFFY SIGHout of ss. Then a irritated okaayyy...

Omg. Did he not just tell me "ss would be missing teeth" the other day when my son sighed because he had to wait longer??

All i know is i learned a very big lesson, do not tell ss a damn thing- only words i will utter- what did your dad say? Call your dad.

Im over this lack of communication. Im over kids rule the roost, and im over dh thinking ss is innocent and knows nothing.

There was no reason to argue at all. He could have been like- yeah he should have said something i will talk to him. Boom done. No he has to mock me, "oh so now what? should i take all his games away?"

Ugh grown man baby...