If you read my posts, you know my SD 13 is really mature for her age in most areas. The one area she is still at an appropriate maturity level is when it comes to boys. She still covers her eyes and says "eww" when people kiss in the movies. I know it won't last much longer, but I'm happy that's where she is right now. She does seem to enjoy having the title of being a girlfriend however, as she has had several "boyfriends" throughout the school year. She never spends any time with them, or event talks to them much on the phone, I think it's more of a FB/school hall status thing.

We have never received any CS from BM. BM clearly knew she owed CS and that she was in arrears with it when she was guiltily SD on FB. BM had said the money was being taken from her check automatically. I'm wondering, if that's true, does CS hold on to the money and then send a check for several months? Is there something we have to do to receive garnished CS payments? Any advice helps.

I can't believe how bad ass my skid is! For a recap, SO and I raise SD13 and SS11 full time. BM is a drunk, child support evader and just like every addict, nothing is her fault, ever. BM's mom, the raisin, must have turned BM's phone back on since BM has been MIA on Facebook for quite some time. The raisin likes to enable her daughter for a few months and then get mad when BM is still doing alcoholic things, like passing out and getting fired, and then cuts her off financially.

Well we just got the news from CS. They made contact with BM's employer at the end of April and she had already left her job on the 15th. I'm not sure if she got fired or quit. She is not at her last known address any longer either. I'm wondering if she received something about the garnishment at her home and quit before they actually started taking money from her checks. What a winner.