Last week BF asked BM to be able to see his son Saturday from 12-5. She said yes and he emailed back saying that he would pick him up at Shop N Save (the usual drop off /pick up point) at 12:00. She said NO you have to come to her house. He said NO I will pick him up at the usual place. She said she had placed a call to her attorney and would advise him. The next thing you know BF is getting a call from his attorney saying he needs to negotiate a pick up point/drop off point for Saturday. At $280 an hour for the attorney you can imagine what this would cost. We already had to pay for the freakin phone call which will be at least $65. BF says no he will not negotiate through attorneys when they already have a usual point to pick up/ drop off and he felt it was best to keep the spot the same for ss who is four. Needless to say we didn't get ss on Saturday. Anyway on Saturday I went to JC Penneys around noon to pick up a few things. Now Penneys is right next door to Shop N Save the usual pick up/drop off point. I am busy looking at the lingerie and not paying attention to anything other then what I am doing. All of the sudden I hear this very loud voice that belongs to BM. HELLO! HELLO! I look up (as did most of the people around me) and she is less then 8 feet away from me and waving at SS (who is headed towards me) to come to her. He immediately runs to her. She grabs him by the arm and leaves her cart there and headed out of the store! I was just shocked. I was afraid to even say Hello to stepson because I didn't want him to get in trouble. For some reason this woman finds it impossible to even be in the same store with me and it is a pretty big store. I don't get it. But then I got pretty angry because I realized that it was the drop off time and she was going to be right across the street from the drop off point anyway. WTF! If she was going to be there anyway what was the point of negotiating through attorneys a new drop off place for a five hour Saturday visit? UGH! She makes me nuts!