My hubby and I are fed up with my step daughter (13). I've posted a few entries about her bad behavior and after these last few weeks we are both officially at the end of our rope. Let me tell you what happened this week. Lets begin by me finding a used pad in Her drawer, I then place it in her bed, So she will see it and planned to talk to her about it but when I went back she again placed it in her drawer to hide it again. Ok so I found it initially, put it on her bed, she puts it back .She gets in trouble and told to go to bed and throw it away.