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Used to love the holidays

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Submitted by kay on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 6:11pm

When I dated the husband, I loved it all. Once I got married and became the STEP.....it all changed. SD just came in for the week. She is 18 now and does not want to be here....so DON'T! How do I say that and still be nice. Must play nice they say! She screws up my SS who lives with me. His whole attitude changes. Messes up my bio kids. It is just not worth it.

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ddakan's picture

Submitted by ddakan on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 7:42pm

wow, she needs to go spread her disease somewhere else. one bad apple, huh?

say, hun, i'm glad you want to visit here, but this is our home and we enjoy peace, so quit fucking with our system. if you can't stop making trouble, maybe you need to visit grandma or BM.

either way she'll hate you but it would be funny to say that. she's probably talking to BM and they are laughing about all the grief she is causing.

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 7:57pm

I would just tell her that if she does not want to come that your feelings would not be hurt and where can you send her gifts - she is an adult so let her be with her friends or whoever the hell she wants - does DH want her to be with him - just don't push her let her stay where she is!! If she thinks she can still get gifts then she will have no reason to come - see win win!!