6 weeks now
We have had my SS for 6 weeks now! He is doing well in school and receptive to the change. NOW tonight bio is comming to spend the weekend with him. She is not having him spend the night with her in order to keep the consistancy. This is good. BUT I must admit I am a little nervouse. I have never had her in my house in 9 years. I keep reminding myself that this is my house and I should be the one that remains comfortable. Anthing special I should do? Anything I need to do to make this knot in my stomach go away?
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Yeah.. not let her
Yeah.. not let her in.
Seriously.. I get that knot when my dh's ex CALLS the house.. forget coming inside (she isnt allowed after she assaulted me)..
Good luck.. you are a better person than me. Perhaps throwing up just before she gets there.. OR a big glass of wine or some adult beverage prior to her ringing your door bell (dont forget the mints after!!)
Ewwwwww!
I wish I had some good advice for you, but just reading about this makes me want to go take a shower.
♥ Georgia, the un-stepmom ♥
"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)
I don't think you will be able
To get rid of that sinking feeling until she actually shows up and the visitation begins. Just try to remain calm, act as you normally would in your home and remember just how gracious you are being. Your DH owes you big time!
~Evil
If you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders. ~Abigail Van Buren
i dont know yr whole situation
but i would say no...i understand that kids need stability but these situations dont lend themselves to that completely...kids go back and forth all the time and while it is not ideal, its reality and it happens and it works. but i dont know the whole situation and im guessing theres more here so i would agree w the others...get drunk first bc i cant handle when she even texts and she will NEVER EVEN come NEAR our house again so cheers to u for putting yr stepkids needs b4 yr own!
no way!
Im sure our situations are different but I could never ever imagine letting her in my house, its my house, just like I would never go in to hers. you are definatly a bigger person them me! Good Luck!