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SD13 is disrespectful to BM and guess whose fault it is???

katielee's picture

Why, mine, of course! LMAO at the lengths these bitches will go to blame shit on the stepmother.

(Stepmothers make good targets, I guess...except that I don't play by the rules. I shoot back...Muhahahaha)

Turns out BM and SD13 had a horrible time last weekend. SD apparently spoke very disrespectfully to BM (I know this only from BM's facebook and seeing a huge message BM's mother sent to SD.) When SD got home Sunday she broke out the waterworks and cried to Daddyyyy because her mom screamed the F word in her face. Sounds like BM is drinking AND smoking again and told SD it was all HER fault.

But as it turns out, it's NOT SD's fault, after all. It's KATIELEE'S fault... at least according to Facebook, which explains that kids learn from what they see and SD lives with ME lol.

The only problem with that logic is that even before SD13 came here to live she was the most disrespectful kid I've ever met and has a long line of teachers behind her that can certainly attest to that fact. She's been written up, suspended, and even kicked out of one school because of her disrespect.

Of course, now the disrespect is MY fault... lololol. That's so idiotic it's funny.

But this little bitty town full of bar whores, all butt-hurt because I swooped in and married their favorite redneck, are oh so willing to label me the bitch and will swallow any little juicy tidbit about me just to make themselves feel better. (DH, did you have to screw ALL OF THEM?!?)

Just another reason to make that 800 mile move away from this place;)

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mommy0104's picture

I guess the ones really at fault are the last ones who want to accept the blame. My DH and his ex wife were horrible about that crap when the skids were younger. If they had a bad attitude at BM's house it was DH's fault. If they had attitudes at DH's house it was BM's fault. I'm just over here like "They have bad attitudes because you BOTH do..now go get some therapy or something" lol..Or there was one time the oldest skid broke out with a bad case of Acne..that was somehow my fault for not showing her how to use her "zit cream" right.. wow! (bm was obsessed with the skids having perfect skin..weirdo..lol)

katielee's picture

My DH apparently made the rounds with the bar whores around here. He's an easy man to love (why else would I stay???) but a very slippery one to catch. He was also a confirmed bachelor and was very open in his plans to NEVER marry again (He only ever married anybody because he got them pregnant... and he wasn't happy about that.)

So it was quite a shock to the women of this town when he married me a little less than a year after we met, and I wasn't even preggo!!! Catching him was simple. He knew he had come across the best thing that had ever happened to him, and when he looked at me and told me he never planned to marry again, I asked him if he thought I was the kind of woman to stick around and settle for that kind of thing.

We married two months later. It sent shock waves through this little town.

momandmore's picture

Of course it's your fault!!!

It's my fault all the time too..especially when it's someting they have learned from BM. She really hates getting a dose of her own from her kids. My SDs are younger than yours and live with me but still learn how to treat BM by BM. She hangs up on them..next call they hang up on her .. My fault. Haha.

katielee's picture

My SD13 with us full-time and she IS disrespectful... to her dad, her mom, her teachers... but NOT TO ME. Ya know why? Cause I've taught the little shit that if she messes with me she pays for it big-time. So she thinks twice before she EVER says an ill word to me and you'd think she's swallowed her tongue if I catch her throwing a rude glance my way.

She's still manipulative and the biggest martyr that ever lived (Daddyyy, can I have the rest of those stale Fritos???) but she doesn't outwardly disrespect me anymore and I am probably the only person alive she doesn't.

momandmore's picture

Sucks that she's disrespectful to everyone .. At least you taught her you wouldn't put up with it.

My SDs are only disrespectful to BM and when I did try to redirect them they got upset with me, then BM accused me of telling them what to say so now I just sit back and let them dish it out to her.

katielee's picture

I'm from an even smaller town than this one, but it's MY small town and this is BM's. She has lived here all her life (as has my DH) and I have lived here less than 5 years. Don't get me wrong.. there are some wonderful people in this little town. There's just an underbelly of bar whores who seemed to have never made it past 8th grade mentality.

StepKat's picture

According to castle troll any time the skids act badly it’s all DH’s fault. SD14 lies, sneaks around on her electronics, is boy obsessed, is appearance and attention obsessed because (according to the troll) SD has daddy issues (not because it’s a learned behavior SD picked up from her whore of a mother).