SD13 told BM "we" were moving out of state and BM is flipping her shit.
In fact, we got a summons from the court where she has filed for emergency custody because we are trying to leave the state with her sweetiepie.
LMAO 
What was even funnier was that she included all her wicked stepmother complaints in her letter to the judge (that poor, poor man)...
~Katielee doesn't buy the right kind of menstrual pads (lie...I caved and bought the damn Always with wings in the freakin' yellow package)
~Katielee doesn't allow Princess SD to go on dates alone with her dad even though that's what she neeeeeds. (UM, this one is the truth and will remain so.)
~Princess SD is only allowed to do laundry on Tuesdays!!! (lie-that is her scheduled day but not set in stone)
and this one... OMG...
~Katielee makes her own SOAP!!! (I make my own {{{damn-good}}} laundry detergent, but bat-shit crazy BM relates that to personal hygiene.)
GASP!!!
She also would like the judge to know that she can't "relate" to DH anymore because of me.
In our state, you can't just open frivolous custody cases so I could stop this in its tracks with one sentence (we've not moved yet and have no intention of moving out of state with SD) but DH says to let it go forward as he was planning to send SD13 over there every other week anyway.
So it looks like we are going back to court.
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Naw, she can't afford a
Naw, she can't afford a lawyer and I can make mincemeat out of her with ease. In our state I am referred to as a "Non-Attorney" lol. I have to put my name on anything I help my husband with as the nonlawyer. I am a pretty damn good nonlawyer (with Google's help, of course.)
Umm... they're
Umm... they're divorced.
You're not supposed to be "relating" after you divorce.
Right? That's exactly what I
Right? That's exactly what I said lol.
Right??? LOL... borax,
Right??? LOL... borax, washing soda, & that yellow soap I can never remember the name of???
I swear it works as good as Tide and smells better too.
But I have to admit it DOES get on Princess's hands because she has to dip it out of a 5 gallon bucket. Oh the horrors!
And Friday afternoon, Netflix *mysteriously* signed itself out and NOBODY but Katielee knows how to sign in {{{hehehe}}} Katielee, of course, can't recall the password. In a few days she might try to look it up on the computer. Maybe she'll have to get it emailed to her. Maybe she can't remember how to sign into her email. What a tragedy! I guess we'll get that much-needed break from "Pretty Little Liars."
Muahahahaha.
I thought your husband
I thought your husband changed his mind about leaving SD behind after speaking to both SD and BM????
Is there any language in the court order about the CP parent moving?
He did, but SD told BM she
He did, but SD told BM she was going with us and of course, SD's word is golden, right?
NOT!
(edited: sorry didn't see your last question. In our state, you can't remove the child from the state without permission from the court.)
Good lord...I TOTALLY misread
Good lord...I TOTALLY misread your whole question, Disney...
He did change his mind about leaving her behind, but he changed it BACK after he realized I was serious about going by myself (check out my last post to my blog "I'm Going Home")
SD has been told it's illegal to take her out of state unless her mom agrees to it. She is aware she's not going. (And no...he never discussed it thoroughly with BM...only mentioned it to her.)
I swear I believe SD13
I swear I believe SD13 believes her own lies. Or maybe more accurately, she believes if she keeps on enough she will get her way regardless of what the adults in her life are telling her.
She is DEFINITELY not going and BM has been told that, but she believes SD over us... apparently thinks we are trying to pull something over on her.
As if...
Good lordamercy...NOBODY in my home state wants that kid around.
This totally reminds me of
This totally reminds me of when Sd moved out. She told her mom she hated my homemade soap. I also make homemade lye soap and the laundry soap you make it's Fels Napha btw. I wouldn't buy her $30.00 shampoos and stuff. I'm wicked...
YES! Fels Napha. I used to
YES! Fels Napha.
I used to make my own homemade lye soap too and it was heavenly. But that was before I moved down here and sold everything in my 4 bedroom house, including my blender, scales, and measuring cups devoted only to making cold-processed blender soap. If SD isn't out of here soon, I might have to scour the Goodwills for a workable blender and start really making soap again.
Never could get the shampoo thing down though. Everything I made rotted my scalp off. If you have a good shampoo recipe, PM me!
{{{On second thought, I could just make shampoo for SD13...muahahaha}}}
Shampoo is still a mystery to
Shampoo is still a mystery to me too...I've tried everything.
LOLOL... The judge is a guy.
LOLOL...
The judge is a guy. He's kind of a redneck guy, at that. He's gonna be horrified at the whole subject lmao.
The ingredients include
The ingredients include greasy grimy gopher guts, chopped up monkey butts, itty dirty birdy feet, all floating in a pool of blood...
No seriously... how dare I deprive Princess SD of her toxins and chemicals!?! The nerve of trying to keep my family healthy! For shame...
I was also a wicked for not
I was also a wicked for not buying Tampax Pearl. Because don't you know....that specific brand "keeps you from cramping." Believe me my household knows more about SDs period than anyone ever should.
You can buy borax and fells
You can buy borax and fells napha on Amazon
The BM wrote she is not
The BM wrote she is not allowed to go on "dates" with DH only? Date is not the word I think of when I go somewhere with my son only. Bleh...
She has rather idiotic complaints on you. She is going to get chews out for bring such nonsense up in court.
On a side note, sorry your health is being effected by all this crap. I almost left my hubby over it as well about a year ago. I love my husband deeply but it was becoming way to much. I started to look into moving out. We worked it out, but blended families sure come at a high price.
I know you'll disagree on the
I know you'll disagree on the dates item but I think you should let sd spend time with her dad, just the two of them. Maybe they could play a board game or play a sport game outside. My SDs like to go for motorcycle rides so dh will take them on his motorcycle. I go shopping with, get dinner with, go shopping with and/or see a movie with my mom. Same with my dad. We are both interested in politics so if there's a political event going on, we'll attend (depending on what it is). Our spouses aren't interested in politics. Do you do stuff with just your son or daughter?
Honestly, if bm wants sd back I think you should tell her things aren't working out and support her getting sd back.
My SD is all about excluding
My SD is all about excluding me anytime she can. Remember, we come from a mini-wife situation. My DH has told her that "dates" are for the family or for he and myself. He doesn't like to go out much, so he himself does not WANT the competition and ridiculousness that could come with opening that can of worms.
Yes, I do stuff with my daughter but DH is totally invited to come anytime he wants to. DD and I don't go on "dates" that exclude everyone else but many times it ends up being just she and I because DH just doesn't want to go.
And I TOTALLY support BM in getting SD back. Hell yes, I support her. I'd wrap her up and send her home with a great big bow if I could.
She told the judge that you
She told the judge that you don't buy the correct pads for SD??? OMG!!!
I know, right? My biggest
I know, right? My biggest concern is that she WON'T get custody!