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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 6:31am

I know I don't post about her much, she is mostly non-existent. 

Last night I was talking to SS21 about who had called him with Happy Birthday's- Of course my family called and sung happy bday (we all do it) which he thought was weird and off key LMAO. He talked to MIL and got texts from SIL's. 

I asked about his mom. He said "Nope, and I don't even have her blocked right now either. She is probably busy." -- Y'all. My heart broke. I hate her. I think she is the worst kind of POS "mother" in the world. (For those who don't know, SS21 is the oldest and she has not had more than supervised visitation since before his 1st birthday. She went on to have 7 other kids and custody of none. All but one child has some kind of disability ranging from Autism to Blindness to Bipolar to who knows what else. We also know of 2 miscarriages and one abortion). 

I took him out to Mellow Mushroom for pizza last night and he got his favorite Funky Q pizza. He did order one cocktail and enjoyed it. He said he felt very relaxed after it LOL. Then we went home and he played video games. He thanked me for his mini night out for his birthday. He drives me nuts but I really do love that kid. 

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 6:44am

I can't even blame him with BM1. He was drunk at a graduation party. I was a stupid one night stand. Stupid, stupid teenager....

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Submitted by MissK03 on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 8:06am

Sounds like he enjoyed his birthday and you guys had a fun night!

Not to derail your post but, it's situations like this that infuriate me. BM1 has absolutely no business having children. She's lucky enough to be the type to look at and get pregnant but, people who deserve to be parents can't because of infertility. It's not fair. 

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 8:23am

100% agree. What I had to go through to get my kids was so hard. I lost one pregnancy as well. I hate these women who get pregnant every time the freaking have sex and are the worst mothers on earth. With everything she has done, with the damage she did to her kids in utero - I WISH the courts would have sterilized her after the first 2/3 instead of her having 8 freaking kids. Thank god for her exes who won custody and her SM for taking on the youngest 3/4 of them. 

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Submitted by bananaseedo on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 10:59am

I absolutely agree...or put he on the shot or and IUD>   How horrible for all those children.

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Submitted by NotYourAverageS... on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 8:48am

like BM1 couldn't be bothered to call just to say Happy Birthday? Or even text?

It really sounds like he appreciated your mini birthday celebration though and while there is nothing you can do about how BM1 acts, you are able to do something small, but meaningful for SS.

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Submitted by Thumper on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 11:48am

Awwww sounds like you had such a nice time. Smile

I love reading stuff like this.

Thanks!

 

 

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Submitted by JRI on Thu, 04/08/2021 - 5:53pm

Im glad that boy has you.