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Skeez Factor

just tired's picture

Anybody here ever just get sick of the skeez factor? SD15 can't seem to keep her hands off of Daaaaadddddyyyy. And it really skeezes me out.

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momagainfor4's picture

sd12 almost 13 had a terrible problem of this when I first came into the picture. But I think that my reactions and comments have helped a lot.

She still hangs on him from time to time but now he tells her to stop. There is a time and a place for rough housing play. But it's not something that needs to happen all the time or every single day.
And there is never a good time for a 15 year old to be hanging on a man regardless of if they are related or not.
I see so many kids that don't see to respect anyone else's space.
I have a friend that her daughter did this continually, hung on every single guy around... she ended up preggo at 17 and doesn't even know who the daddy is, plus she just goes from man to man.

It was the writing on the wall but her mom didn't want to see it.
Sad

Newstep's picture

yes it is creepy Sad SD13 will hang all over SO sit in his lap when they watch TV it creeps me out, he told her she was too old for that and she has stopped. But when we go out in public she holds his hand and at restaurants has to sit and inch away from him. He stops that too and she pouts. Oh well she needs to get over it }:)

Unfreakingreal's picture

Just Tired, you must be ME in another body. I just spoke about this in my blog a few days ago about our family vacation.
Here is an excerpt.

SD11 was all over my DH. If she saw him near me, she'd come and interject. We were a large group. During dinner, kids ate at one table adults at the other. She'd continuously come over to our table to rub her fathers face and head. After I had had enough I started mimicking SD by dramatically rubbing my face and saying maybe a genie will jump out and grant me a wish! SS19 leaned over to DH and stated that I was jealous. Hmmm, no says the voice in my head, I think you're little sister is acting fucking creepy, but whatever.

Also, this past weekend, she did the following:
We were at a BBQ, she sat next DH, lay her head on his lap. Held hands with him. Stroked his leg.
While he was laying down on the couch watching tv, she laid her entire body on top of him so she could tell him that she wanted ice cream. It is gross, disgusting and VERY VERY creepy.

I keep having visions of the movie ORPHAN.

just tired's picture

OMG! Unfreakingreal....we are sharing the same life but in different geographical locations!!! WTH?

DH & I took SD15 & her current boyfriend to see a play this past weekend. SD was sitting next to me, but got up and moved so she could sit next to her daaaaaadddddyyyy, and of course the BF moved too. During the play, anytime anything was funny SD would put her hand on daaaaadddddyyyy's leg and laugh with him. It was, as usual, disgusting. But, I wondered what her BF was thinking about it all.

Whatever honey....it ME he sleeps with every night....not you. And no matter how hard you try to be the little Lolita in daaaaadddddyyyy's life, it's me that's the wife...not you.

Bitches.....