So I guess I'm just fed up and I am in a awful mindset. I should be happy! My DH finally did something this last time she got kicked out of her Aunts and mouthed off to us. He put her in a Theraputic Girls Home. GREAT RIGHT! Well now she calls constantly with that fake voice and asks to speak to her brother who started pre-k yesterday. she wants to know how it went. well its after bed time so no. but DH let her. I told him its bull sh*t to do that hes already in bed if she really cared about him she wouldn't be doing all this crap. He says so i guess your not going to family counsling this weekend. I never said that but what i am going to say to sd14 is cut the fake act we are here for a reason and that nothing will help as long as you are being fake as can be show what you do to me. he says we haven't seen her in two weeks and thats how you will do it? WOW! This is tearing up me and my boys so yes. One of my sons is 2 out of those two years she has maybe been home 6 months. constant fighting. constant back and forths from grandmothers home to ours till i finally had enough and told DH I'm done you can both leave or she can leave so she goes to her aunts does really good and then bam shes kicked out of there in a week and guess what she yelled she just wanted to kill herself there too. I have been doing family counslings for 5 years! excuse me if i don't want to keep doing the same shit over and over. She really wants to be with her mom. The judge ordered no contact. But shes 14 she has already called her. its only a matter of time before that turns into a huge mess. Just let her go. She will eventually see what a piece of work that donor was. But DH will never do that. in the mean time i have to deal with all the backlash. my 4 year old spent the night at a friends house and he got in trouble and decided to yell he wanted to kill himself. I just needed to rant.Im sick of fake people