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ah...and new baby makes 3...isn't welfare grand?

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 8:50pm

}:) So, I just realized that loser, ie. SKID, dropout at 17, now 18 is preggo again...isn't life grand? I mean, it must be nice to be on welfare and just keep popping out kids...just 18...wow, amazing.

PS - I won't even tell DH...let him find out through someone else...but it ticks me off how these freaking women are allowed to have all these kids they cannot afford...pathetic...

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:42pm

Facebook...

DH has little to no contact...her choice. When CS ended, he called her, we both told her that if she wanted to finish school, etc. we would help her but DH told her he expected that she would take advantage of it so that she could do something in her life...I do think he also let her know that he would no longer tolerate her insults to him or me, but he was willing to work through issues. Of course, she chose to keep getting knocked up...

I THINK it is the same guy...but they are off and on since baby #1...typical low life...anytime they are on, she gets preggo it seems...

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 11:44pm

PS I had my one and only at age 33 and made over 60K by then...had a house, paid off car, savings, stocks, 401k and no debt...

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Submitted by PeanutandSons on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 7:28am

Its astounding. I watch teen mom (don't judge me, lol, guilty pleasure) and its insane how many of these girls have friend with babies in highschool too. This weeks episode showed Chelsea's sister and she already has two kids...and I believe she's only a year older than Chelsea.

I didn't know anyone in hs that got pregnant.... There was ONE girl I remember seeing walking around preggo but I didn't know her. And my hs had 3500 kids in it. I guess teen motherhood is just normal in some areas of the country.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 8:18am

I feel your pain. My oldest niece is 22 and about to give birth to her fourth child. She doesn't work, her husband is chronically unemployed or underemployed (he made $6000 in 2011) and they are perfectly happy to live off the state. My next niece is 21 and pregnant with her third child. Both she and boyfriend work low-paying jobs and I'm sure get state help. Stop having kids if you're not equipped to support them!

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 10:28am

wait...what? She's 18 and already on her THIRD kid? Dear Lord...and my 34-year-old friend who's been married 10 years and desperately wants children can't get pregnant....

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 10:31am

What third kid! :jawdrop: My daddy would have whooped my butt from here to there after my mom got done beating the crap out of me for getting pregnant the first time. The third they probably would have dis-owned me. Wow 3 kids when she is not even legal enough to drink or travel wow.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 11:42am

18 and on child #3? WTF is wrong with her? Does she NOT believe in birth control? Holy Hell.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Thu, 04/11/2013 - 5:47pm

Ah, yes, her mom had 4...heck, her mom had one about a month before or after she had her 2nd...go figure...DH still doesn't know, I am not saying a thing. I don't care anymore. She's a lost cause...

PS - I predicted it at the lovely age of 6 or so when she was coming over wearing BRAS her mom would buy her, dancing nasty rap showing her behind and wearing jeans so tight she had to lay down to zip them...ah, yes, and those darn platform shoes she always wore...they called me ridiculous...now I just sit back and laugh