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Submitted by harleydgrl on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 2:48pm

I have 2 ss, ages 8 & 5. BM has met a man on the internet and is supposedly getting married in sept, without ever seeing this person. Now she is saying she is moving out of town with him and the kids..Any suggestions?? We currently have ss every other weekend as well as 3-4 days per week. She is the custodial parent, but we keep them most of the time..it is very screwed up..

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happysomeday's picture

Submitted by happysomeday on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 2:54pm

Call CPS- I hate to say that, but it's not safe for them for her to move them in with a stranger. How does she know he isn't an abuser or a pedophile? Some sick people seek out relationships with single moms just to get to their kids, and if he'll have them move in without meeting her, it means there's something wrong with both of them

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Submitted by bellacita on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 3:05pm

i thought if legal custody was shared, one parent couldnt do it w/o the others consent???

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

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Submitted by chaotic on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 3:07pm

Is there a court order, custody order, or parenting plan in place? If it were me, I would contact the court and/or an attorney ASAP!

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Submitted by Gmama on Wed, 07/23/2008 - 7:36pm

Talk to an atourney, In my divorce even though I had SOLE PHYSICAL custody we had JOINT LEGAL wich ment I could not remove my children out of state without his permission. so thats a good place to start,then take the next step to what you need to do, don't assume she won't get married, or she'll be back in a year, my DH did that with his son ( he never pushed anything when his EX took his son and moved away ) he's been gone for 5 years, so do take some kind of action soon.