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Submitted by happy on Wed, 11/21/2018 - 8:06pm

 It’s been awhile since I have been in here. My husband and I offered his daughter and husband and 3 grandkids a place to stay with us since 8/3! They lost the home they were renting and even though in the past there have been issues I thought we can do this! Okay last night my daughter who is 22 and was living with boyfriend came home crying and needs to come back! So her husband and her are having marital problems and due to the fact he cannot live her without his son having a room - I made the mistake of saying his son would give up room! He is here every other weekend and thursdays!

Ladies I need advice

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Submitted by happy on Thu, 05/18/2017 - 9:33am

I have been married for 10 years and together 3 years previous! A lot of turmoil cause husband does not know how to stand by his wife! All the trouble we have had is because of this. I am at a point in my life where I am 42 my kids are grown - my son graduates June 4th ships out to Air Force June 13th, I have a stressful job I love, feeling blue about kids leaving me. Still have issues with husband about his 32 year old drug addicted son who steals and has stolen from me before and of course I don't want him around, my feelings are so conflicted right now.

Good post

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Submitted by happy on Wed, 05/03/2017 - 2:20pm

My son - who is 18 and graduating High School in June - is also leaving in June for the United States Air Force- as a mom I am proud and terrified and sad - he is brave and strong! My daughter will be going to London - this will be my first Christmas without my kids at home. They are flying on there own and it scares the hell out of me. But it means I did good right?

Does anyone know anything on Gilbert Syndrome?

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Submitted by happy on Tue, 01/24/2017 - 4:45pm

I took my 17 year old son for sports physical last night - and during the physical the Dr. asked is it normal for his eyes to be yellow - not directly by eyeball but when you turn your eyeballs his eyes are yellow. I said no - my son said oh that's not normal - umm no - feel bad I didn't see it but anyways they did blood test and the results show high level of bilirubin - they are thinking Gilbert Syndrome - does anyone on here have a child with it or know someone with it? we are going to family Dr. on Friday next week and i want my son tested to make sure its nothing major..

There is hope... for all you SM with SD

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Submitted by happy on Sat, 01/14/2017 - 12:32pm

On a happy note -- for 12 years of my marriage - which my stepdaughter was 12 when i came into the picture and let me tell you I have been through hell and back with that one. I never in my life thought we would ever come together and have any relationship at all EVER. She made my life a living hell for so long. Used me, treated me like dog poop along with my bio kids.

TEENAGERS

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Submitted by happy on Tue, 10/30/2012 - 4:04pm

This ia about my very own biodaughter..

Seriously I remember being 16 and doing things I wasn't suppose to..

My ex husbands wife came to me today to share that my daughter 2 weeks ago went to a friends house and everyone was drinking and suppose to stay the night, and yes the mom was there of one of the kids and approved, well her live in Boyfriend came home and kicked these kids out so drunk kids got into cars and drove home, my daughter of course said the guy they were with wasn't drinking. I am so hurt and disappointed right now.