My DH comes home from work this morning. Wakes me up very sweetly and downstairs we go to have some coffee after waking up the kids and waiting for them to come down for breakfast. DH and I are chatting and he says to me, "I got the weirdest email last night from BOB (back off bitch...for here)" My response, "Who? What?" DH says "You know, BOB" Me: Oh...

Now BOB is a woman that my DH dated about five or six years ago for about 6-8 months. They broke up and I believe it was due to the screwing around by her with another man. I'm not positive as I've never asked the specifics, it's not relevant to me, but the man she was messing with was a very good friend of mine's boyfriend. They were quite serious. This BOB walked up to my friend on NYE when they were at the same establishment and said "oh you must by Sweetie, Jerkhead talks about you all the time. It's so nice to finally meet his girlfriend and to see him so happy" just out of the blue. Well three days later, Jerkhead tell my friend there is someone else, it's been going on for a long time, and he's in love with her so they break up. Jerkhead and BOB get engaged two months later and married six months later. Again, this all started four or five years ago and of course due to my friend being heartbroken I didn't like BOB. Then I meet DH and we start dating and I realize he dated BOB back around that time. Again, I didn't ask for specfics...it was before me, has no relevance to me...and life carried on.

So my DH says look, and pulls up on the computer his work email and shows me the email. This is the correspondence.

BOB: Hey there! I,ve been meaning to email you but have just been crazy busy ( no need to explain bitch...he hasn't been waiting for an email from you anyway). I hear you bought XYZ house next to my mom's. That's awesome. I told my mom at least she will have a good neighbor.. It's so weird going to my mom's now and seeing lights on in that big huge house! I'm really happy for you DH. Maybe I'll see you more often now. I hope you and the boys are doing well, and you're happy Take care.
REALLY??? You haven't spoken to my DH in five years other than the occasional cordial hello if we run into you at the grocery store...now you're hoping you'll see him more??? And he didn't buy the house alone bitch, him and his WIFE live there with their FIVE kids...and yes she knew he was married.

My DH response: Thanks BOB, we are all doing well and loving the new place and all the room.
Not sure a response was necessary, and if so it would have been better had he said hanging and I love new place, Thanks! But he is a man and they are dumb and don't get that whole use other words to drive a certain message home...

So she responds to his response!!! WHAT THE FUCK!!!
BOB: That's great. I'm so happy for u. (yes a u not a you)

GRRRR....this irks me. Or am I being unreasonable??