Ooopsie baby's, This is Fun
Okay so this is what i thought about after everybody had blogs about the Cp and a man's responsibility.
What about this , What about a man who gets a woman intentionally pregnant after she told him she doesn't want to have children. He pokes holes in the condoms and switches her birth control with Vitamin pills.
Woman gets pregnant .
Man wants to raise the child alone.
Should woman have the child and then pay child support?
Or should woman just go and have an abortion?
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Silly me, I didn't think of
Silly me, I didn't think of that. I like the idea of a surrogate best.
I think the woman should be
I think the woman should be able to make the choice about keeping her baby or not.
I know that men can poke holes in condoms too, even though we don't hear about it as much. I think it is wrong on so many levels for someone to do that, regardless of the gender of the person poking the holes in the condoms.
If the woman doesn't want to raise the child, but is willing to let the man do so, that's great. However, if the woman wants to terminate her pregnancy, and doesn't want to carry the baby, then I don't think the man should tell her she can't.
But isn't the baby also
But isn't the baby also HIS??
So why does the woman gets to decide alone?
If she has an abortion , she is also killing HIS baby.
Just like when the woman tricks the man into a pregnancy, he has to pay cp.
He HAS to take the responsibility for the child he did not want But she doesn't??
Yes if he wants to have a child he could get a surrogate, just like the woman could get a man who WANTS to have a child with her.
*LIKE*
*LIKE*
The baby is 50/50, you are
The baby is 50/50, you are right... but the woman has the main choice because a man's job is to put sperm in, which takes 5-10 seconds... A woman's job includes 9 whole months of hormonal and physical changes, back pains, vomits, swollen feet, and so many other things that are not comfortable at all... oh and should I mention the one pushing a human being out of her vagina, or getting her stomach sliced to get the baby...
So technically, it is not 50-50%
Oh gia i totally get that ,
Oh gia i totally get that , but its still unfair.
Its not like the man has a choice in the matter, it is not his fault that he cant give birth.
I just wanted to point out that IF it is really about the CHILD, it goes both ways.
There for it is unfair to say " well you cant give birth so you don't have a choice in the matter". I am the woman , i have all the power and i can do what i want and you are going to pay for MY CHOICE . That is unfair.
And i just wanted to show that allot of people have double standards.
I hope with the " Use your
I hope with the " Use your crazy else where you" didnt mean me.
This is not a pro choice or
This is not a pro choice or pro life debate. By the way i am pro choice.
This whole post was about Katrinkie's and fabumom's blogs
Because i believe , if somebody ,a woman or a man are being Tricked and forced basically to pay cp for a child they did not want and they made it clear that they did not want it, that it is not fair.
I understand that yes there are many stupid man who don't use condoms ,i believe that those well it is their own fault.
But the one that have been tricked by the woman by poking holes into condoms, should not have to pay cp.
On the other blog there were some women who basically said " bad luck for the guy who has been tricked"
and i don't agree with that.
Since this goes both ways.
And no i am not talking about rape,
I am talking about being with a person , making clear that you ( man or woman ) don't want to have a child and the other person, goes behind your back and pokes holes into condoms and makes you pay cp.
but how many men will claim
but how many men will claim deception to get out of cs. Tons. It's a he said, she said situation. Either party can claim anything they want. It's impossible to prove. Once again the kid suffers
Yes obviously it is a he said
Yes obviously it is a he said she said situation, but that was not what i asked.
I asked about an opinion in this situation.
my opinion is, it's her body
my opinion is, it's her body she can do whatever she wants. If she wants to give the child to the father , then yes cs part of that deal..if she gives it up for adoption , she can not claim dad on birth cert and walk away.. He may fight it, but a child comes from two people. At some point how it got here doesn't matter. Deceived, accident whatever
I am all about choices
I am all about choices here...I believe that if we as women have the right to choose...a man should as well...if a woman wants the baby and the father does not (for whatever circumstance) a man should have the right to give up all rights as the father...which means no custody battles...no child support. This takes away all double standards. If the man intentionally impregnates a woman...and she does not want to carry the child so be it.
Personally I could never have
Personally I could never have an abortion...but ultimately it is up to the woman. If she wants to have an abortion it is her body and her choice. It was her choice to have an intimate encounter and no birth control is 100%, so anytime someone has sex and still has a uterus and has not gone through the change, then she could become pregnant from that encounter. In a perfect world I guess the man would have a 50-50 say in what happened before the fetus becomes viable but unfortunately the woman has all the power until then. JMO
Agree with Jojo68. My kids
Agree with Jojo68.
My kids are teens (a girl and a boy) and I tell them not to have sex until they are willing to accept the possibility of becoming a parent. I know that accidents happen but if you're not willing to accept the risk, then you shouldn't be having sex. It's not fair to put it off on the man -- unless it is a rape situation. Condoms fail so even if the man didn't poke holes in the condom there is a risk of getting pregnant. No birth control is 100% and we all need to really accept that. That being said, if you're taking the pill properly AND using condoms you've got a pretty low chance of getting pregnant. In this day and age, there ARE ways to nearly 100% guarantee you're not going to get pregnant so I have a hard time understanding an "oopsie".
"In a perfect world I guess the man would have a 50-50 say in what happened before the fetus becomes viable but unfortunately the woman has all the power until then." Yep. Not fair, but that's just how it is.