So I am a SF. I'm married to my wife who is 12yrs my senior. She has 4 kids with 2 different fathers. The oldest 2(SS16&SD14) their father has never been in their lives so I've taken the role of the father in their lfe. Her youngest 2 children(SD13&SD11) live with their BF. So the older two live with us. I have never had anykids and my wife is unable to have anymore kids which I have expected I love all her kids as they are mine, even the 2 that actually live with their BF. So my oldest SD14 that lives with us we are very close. I adore her and love her very much same with my SS16(he's not the problem). My SD is very good with me 2. My issue is is that I am very stern and I expect my skids to respect me and honor my rules. My wife thinks I am to striked but I explain to her I am not their bestfriend I am their SF. So my SD has been real sneaky lately...one of my rules is she can't have a bf till she is 16. She has came home before with hickeys and I've even caught her tryiing to date a 17yr old boy. I went off I even went to the point to up and moving my family to a better county so I can give them a better life. When we moved here my SD was doing very well with not having a bf and respecting my rule. Lately I feel she's been sneaky so. Checked her myspace and facebook (she left them login) and I found some nasty and upsetting messages as well as her tellng boys she loves them. Lastnight she was using my wifes phone and when she was done I went thru it and saw she was texting a boy. I'm at my wits end...I've talked to her and punished her before for this but she still keeps on and what I don't like is that she is lieing to my face and being sneaky. My wife has no problem with this and just say "she's a kid their going to lie and experament" to me that's no excuse. I don't know what to do anymore what shud I do? I'm so hurt and angry with her...if me and my wife can't have no baby in my house I'm sure as hell not going to have my skids bring babys in my house.