Happy that I found this place. Ive been lurking and reading but not posting. I need a place to vent and get some advice when I need it. Unfortunately bm runs in very close circles to mine. I dont trust anyone when it comes to keeping the peace. Ive got a complex mixed family here. SD13&SD11 from Df 1st marriage (full custody) and ss6&sd3 from DF 2nd...DS9 who resides w exh 5 states over part of the year. Theres other screwed up dynamics but whatever. My life had been drama free, stress free, and completely calm before I got with this dude.