His daughter is fourteen ! Should I say any more , well I have nine of my own one that belongs to him , ok I'm thinking maybe cut my ties now! His daughter is a bad influence on my children even though my children know better their dad and I where married and together 18 years before he passed! This kid I speak of can be very conniving , she left the house without permission stayed out all weekend, not even a call, has a group of boys over when her dad goes to work, causes her brother to have it hard he is younger and much smaller, so when he told his dad she now has them boys wanting to jump on him, she has pushed him down the stairs and done so many mean things to many to mention, when they come over I've caught her doing things trying to get my children in trouble, for one she wrote on the wall in their room mama is a bitch , and spelled it wrong so when I asked the ones to write it on paper she was the only one that spelled it the same way, she is telling my to older girls about having sex with different boys, smoking , she made a face book page that I had deleted because of the naked pictures and what her interest stated. He her father is slowing catching on but doesn't really have a clue on how to handle this kid,I know kids mess up and I've tried to help her I took her to be tested and get on birth control at the health department and because she has rights they wouldn't tell us any thing and she refused the birth control shot, I've bought her nice things she says I'm trying to change her ! Merging house holds is out of the question now I've got to think about my own children , I love her father and realize he needs to be apart of our daughters life but I true lily think I need to think of the long term and cut my ties before any damage is done to my other children! I know what I need to do I just got to do it Ty for letting me vent!