NOTHING irritates me more than this last minute scheduling B.S. The younger two SKids don't have to worry about last minute scheduling b/c of their mom only being on supervised visits but the SS14 drives me CRAZY with the last minute crap. DH and this BM dont' have a custody order or anything, they've been very good with each other about custody and letting SS decide where he wants to be (however DH paid her CS but she doesn't pay us CS)...BUT...we're a FIVE person family, getting ready to be a SIX person family and I can't deal with the last minute scheduling! I've tried to explain this to DH and I've told the SS14 over and over and over and over that he needs to arrange his visits with his mom before Wednesday (and I think that's being nice, I'd like a weeks notice) and as always he waits until THURSDAY night to make arrangements. His mom is ALWAYS late or always calling and not picking him up until Saturday morning when we have a million things going on. And then not showing up until bedtime on Sunday and usually without dinner. She lets him stay up as late as he wants and sleep until like 2 on Sundays which doesn't help with the school routine I work so hard to get all the kids in. I've talked to DH about this and he just ignores it, he doesn't deal with the schedules he lets me so what does he care, but it's driving me nuts.
Are my pregnancy hormones OUT OF CONTROL or should I keep pushing to get a better routine??
Dawn