My boyfriend and I have been living with one another for 6 years now and when we first moved in together there were no kids but within the first year of living together his one son moved back in with us because he got in an altercation with his mother who he was living with. Let me remind you that ever since his mother and father got divorced he goes back and forth between their homes, they have been divorced for 16 years. This son lets call him Adam is the most disrespectful son I have ever met, treats everyone like crap and thinks he deserves everything. Then about 3 years ago my boyfriends other son we will call him Carl moved back in because he lost his job. So now we have two mid to late twenty somethings living in our home. They do not lift a finger to help, nothing, they do do their own laundry but leave it hanging out of the dryer and in the washing machine. No cleaning, no lawn work, my boyfriend and I do everything. When I walk in the door from an 11 hour day at work I get "what are you cooking tonight" REALLY WTF! Now his son Adam has not had a job for a month and expects his father to pay for everything, bills, junk food etc. I am really beginning to hate Adam. And his mother calls up the other day asking his father if we had any food in the house because Adam keeps calling her asking her to buy him dinner. The ex is a loon and mind you yes we have a ton of food in the house that I purchase and make dinner every night but he either says eww you are having that I don't like that or he goes out, remember he is 24 years old not a child and the ex has the audacity to call us like he is some toddler. Having the two of them there is really putting a strain on our relationship, well I could handle just Carl but Adam is a whole other story. Adams wants to go everywhere with us, dinners, movies, anything that he can get his father to pay for. I just want to unload on Adam but I love my boyfriend to much and don't want to upset him or have to deal with me blowing up when he has a crazy ex to deal with and disrespectful lazy son. Well that felt good to vent!!!