If you need extra information, please go back to my blog and see the letter I wrote to SD but didn't send.

Hubby and I have had enough of being ignored in our own house so he has advised SD that she needs to find time in her schedule next week to sit and talk with us. This, after being ignored by her in our own house for 2 months now. He has asked me to be there, even though I am detaching because he wants me to have the opportunity to voice my feelings. I'm still not sure how i feel about that but in preparation I thought perhaps I would print the previous letter I wrote http://www.steptalk.org/node/165321 and just read sections off of it to her at the "meeting". I never gave her the letter to read because I didn't think she would "hear" me but I wonder if me reading it out loud might have more impact.

My other option is to just wing it but I'm afraid I won't keep my cool and will forget key points I want to bring up.

Of course, the other option is to not be there at all but I would like the chance to at least get my feelings off my chest.

Thoughts, opinions?