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Submitted by Distressed-stepmom on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 5:43am

Wow, I'm so glad to have found this site. I have been with my husband for going in 8 years. He has 3 kids and I have 1 of my own. Only my BS lived with us then his BS moved in with us then his BD. Things were always good with me and them. But the SD has ruined my happy home. I only just got married on July 4th this year, and last night I almost moved out. SD thinks she co trols everything and DH doesn't see it. She acts all sweet to him and a snot nosed lying brat to me. He just doesn't understand. I'm happy we worked it out but I still have to live with her. Anyways, I was reading about disengaging and that's what I'm going to do. Thanks to all of you who have posted on here. I feel relieved to not be the only one with the same problem and that there is help. I can't take the stress anymore and I'm going to give this a go. Your all brave and strong people for having to deal with step kids that are a$$#@!#s. Good for you!!

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Tuff Noogies's picture

Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 7:27am

welcome Smile how old are the kids? and yes, what biomom(s) does your situation involve?

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 7:46am

Welcome and *nose smack* for marrying. Until they change for the positive long term no saying I do. Naughty girl Wink

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Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 7:53am

she needs to come back!!!!
we need fresh blood bwaaahaaahaaahaaaa }:) }:) }:)

just kidding, OP! but seriously, we'd love to help but need a few answers first.

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Submitted by over step on Fri, 08/21/2015 - 8:57am

I agree with finally. Bm has had a lot to do with how puke(sd15) acts towards me. I have had a target on me since day one. Though it took a couple years bm has made it clear that I am the enemy so I just gave up trying. Best decision ever.