Wow, I'm so glad to have found this site. I have been with my husband for going in 8 years. He has 3 kids and I have 1 of my own. Only my BS lived with us then his BS moved in with us then his BD. Things were always good with me and them. But the SD has ruined my happy home. I only just got married on July 4th this year, and last night I almost moved out. SD thinks she co trols everything and DH doesn't see it. She acts all sweet to him and a snot nosed lying brat to me. He just doesn't understand. I'm happy we worked it out but I still have to live with her.