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The Nerve

Dealing_with_Drama's picture

So I know in my first blog I told you all how my husband is taking Crazy }:) back for sole custody. Well, last month we found out by accident that her attorney dumped her. At this time, she still does not have any representation. Wouldn't you know that yesterday he gets a letter in the mail asking why WE can't just get along and be able to talk about OUR son together without interruption. "My New's Year resolution for US and SS is that we can just get along without always going back to court and dishing out alot of money." This woman drives by our home on a regular basis- she lives 30 minutes away in a different city and she admits to this to my husband. Unfortunately for my SS, all she cares about is my husband. I can honestly say that I am really proud of my husband :cool:. He told me that he was not going to talk to her and try to come to some resolution because he can't trust her to do the right thing for my SS and he is sure that nothing will change. So we will be off to court the first week in February. Keep us in your thoughts, my SS is 3. Thanks!

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northernsiren's picture

last summer when we took SDstb15 on vacation with us (more than BM ever did for her) she threatened to call "her lawyer" when she figured out we planned to bring SD to Provincetown, MA. Her issue? "There are gay people there". :O

The funny part is that we just hired a lawyer to file papers for full custody of SD for us. Should happen today or tomorrow. We discovered that we hired the same lawyer who represented BM in the CS suit 12 years ago!!! Apparently it's not going to be a conflict of interest or anything, since he didn't represent her per se, only filed papers for her. But won't it be funny when she calls "her" lawyer after she goes ballistic receiving the papers, only to have him say "sorry, but "fh" has already retained my services". Then she'll go crying to her dad for money, and he'll say "sorry, I'm fresh out, I just paid for "fhs" lawyer to get your custody revoked".

Oh karmic bus, rev your engine!!!!!! }:)

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." Albert Einstein

Dealing_with_Drama's picture

I keep reminding myself that Karma is a real Bitch and she will bite back!

"What you do to children; they will do to society." ~Karl Menninger

Never Ending's picture

holy cow...We have been dealing with courts and BM for years. and in the past 7 years BM was dumped by 3 attorneys..In one mediation 4 years ago, BM attorney told her off in front of H. The attorney was so pissed at BM.

The best is when BM testified in court and the attorney didnt kknow what she was saying. and the shock on his face when bm starts telling the judge this BS story. (We could of had her on perjury so many times, my H didnt want to do it because it would be a neg effect on ss.) (what a joke) One of her attorneys turned tothe judge horrified and said. "Your honor I was not aware of this information"
BM thinks she can make things up as she goes along and everyone will believe it.

We figured BM's dumb husband must of dished out about $30,000, thru the years
Every Year H gets the same kind of email, and ss is always refered to as OUR son, sometimes she will go down memory lane,
My H laughs about it..he never remembers it her way.
Good luck