We have SD3 for 13 hours
We got her!!! Not without a fight with her attorney telling her she had to and our attorney contacting the judge and this is going to be costly I am sure with all the emailing back and forth. It's worth it though. The hard part is when BM does this to SD3 she is a changed child when she gets back to us.
She wants nothing to do with SO or I only her sister. It is hurtful when I know that she is being PAS'd to dealth. And told she can't like me or call me mom. I don't refer myself to mom she calls me MOM on her own.
SO keeps telling me to give her time that she comes around but the past time she did this she would not let go of me and was a leach and would cry when I even went to the bathroom because I shut the door on her.
This poor kid.
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This poor 3 yr old. These
This poor 3 yr old. These evil BM's don't realize they are just hurting their own children!! My BD just turned 4 on Tuesday. She automatically likes anyone that talks to her.
My DD10 was 3 going on 4 when I divorced my ex. She was the sweetest little thing. She liked everyone. I never told her anything bad about her father or his new wife and she is still a very sweet, well adjusted girl. She loves her SM!!
Her half sister (now 16) from exh's first wife is the exact opposite. She had an evil BM that told her daddy didn't love her. Now at age 16 she is jealous of her new SM and hates her. She is insecure and jealous and needs all of daddy's attention.
These mothers need to see what they are doing to their children. Its disgusting!!
I am glad you got her and her sister will get to spend time with her.
PLEASE tell SO that he needs
PLEASE tell SO that he needs to file for contempt... I would also ask for a mediator evaluation of SD too....
This is what makes me mad. He
This is what makes me mad. He signed the papers last Friday for contempt and modification for full custody and his lawyer said he would file them Monday as it was too late Friday. Well he didn't do it for some reason. He said bm was going to file too and we should re think our plan of action or change the order. Fuck no. Let her do it. It states in there clear as day, noncustodialparent gets memorial day and custodial gets labor day. Plus she denied visitation and called cops not SO.
SO gave her the option to make up missed visitation (knowing she would not ) but this would show the judge he tried to work with bm to correct the issue and make things right. This was only to make him look good by the judge since the contempt charge was not filed by the lawyer yet. SO has every intention of filing the order of contempt but the if he waits one more week , bm is planning on continuing to deny him visitation next week also. She already told so that. He has plans for fathers day weekend and bm knows that. She sent him and her lawyer an e mail saying she will be taking so days next week for vacation. She tried to tell him this in April and he told her that would not work as we are leaving Thursday and she plans on returning her Friday evening. He said he will be willing to trade days just not those days so she plans on hiding her again. This time we will have a co and be able to file a police report to take to court. It's a big mess but I hope the judge sees SO is trying and bm is using SD in her games. Our judge hates that.
SD is scared to death. She
SD is scared to death. She asked twice if the cops were going to come get her and take her away. She also asked SO or told him that BM was going to take her away from him. They were waiting for me outside walgreens tonight and she saw a cop and started to get all upset because she thought they were there to take her away. She said BM is taking her away from her dad and she was sad. She cried when she found out she can't stay as she is used to doing.
She thinks all cops are bad. SO told her cops are good people. He doesn't want her thinking they are bad cuz if one day she gets lost or needs help he wants her to trust cops not think cops take kids from their dads.
SD came around quickly and is
SD came around quickly and is back to her loving self after an hour and tryin to test her limits again. so set her straight quick and she knows the rules and following them again. Back to loving us and giving kisses ( just as I typed that she planted a big smooch on me ... lol )
So is having a hard time cuz she has to leave and he missing her and not sure when he will see her again. He normally is asleep by now but is still up holding SD and loving on both his girls. It sucks when life is great inside these walls but outside is a burning fire.