I had a very rare Sunday off. While SS14 was spending time with BM2, DH and I had a lovely Saturday night and most of Sunday. Just spending time together, going out for lunch and enjoying the sunny weather yesterday.

SS14 unlocked the door yesterday afternoon around 4pm. Came in with all his stuff...no BM2. DH asked him where his mum was and he said that she said there was nowhere to park (lie) so she had to get going so she wouldn't be in anyone else's way.

Truth is she knew I was home. DH only mentioned this while meeting her Saturday morning at a supermarket car park because he wanted to make sure SS had the key in case she brought him back while we were out on Sunday. BM2 made the snotty remark that she'd just drop SS at the door. So she did.

But it's ok to play silly ass when I'm not home, asking DH questions that are none of her business and being a snake in the grass. I said to DH this isn't acceptable. She used to come in regardless of who was home but now she only wants to come in when I'm not here to play her games. Now that you tell her exactly where she stands, she's avoiding me since she'd have to behave and she can't stand it that you're no longer being her little puppet. He agrees with me and said if she doesn't want to come in when I'm not home then she doesn't need to come in at all.

We also sent her step by step instruction on how to pay for SS's school lunches on the catering website. As that is the only form of 'child support' we get. She didn't put any money on there so SS had to make his lunch. I casually said maybe you could message your Mum when you're home from school and ask her about adding some lunch money as she said she would. I am not paying for it.

And so it continues...