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Submitted by confusedmomma918 on Wed, 10/10/2012 - 8:44pm

How/what do you say to a six year old boy (SS) that he will not be seeing his BM, but you do not know for how long?

My hubbys ex recently lost her visitation rights due to non-compliance with the court order. His son LOVES his momma and it is breaking out hearts that we do not know how to explain it to him. All we know to say is how much we love him and how much his momma loves him too, but he always comes back with, well when can I see her?

Thing is, it is all up to her. How do you explain that to a poor little child just wanting to see his BM?? Sad

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Submitted by hereiam on Wed, 10/10/2012 - 8:59pm

No matter what you say, his little heart is going to be broken. As long as he knows it is not his fault and it's not because of something he did.

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Submitted by prettyinpink on Wed, 10/10/2012 - 9:38pm

I agree with both coments.. And just.continue to show hom love but also continue with reg. Things like discipline because u dont want to treat him like a victim even though he might b but it wont b good for him in the longbrun..n pray thats all u could realy do.. God bless