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Submitted by CompletelyPuzzled on Tue, 10/02/2018 - 10:48am

Oh BM, why are you so obsessed with my husband?

Yesterday, SD12 handed me her phone.  She wanted to show me a pic that BM had sent her.  I was looking at the pic when I noticed that SD12 had texted her mom that the new baby (Mine and DH's baby) is a girl.  No big deal. But BM's repsonse was so weird. It said, "Oh SD12 thats so exciting. I hope she looks just like you so she looks like you and your sister. Wouldnt it be cool if all your dad's kids look like me and him?"

Wth?? I didnt say anything to SD12, but I told DH.  He shuddered and said he hopes this kid looks nothing like BM. Not only that,  but SD12 is the spitting image of my DH and his mom so I dont know how she thinks the kid would ever look like her.  

I just don't get this weird love/hate fascination with my DH.  Its weird.

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Faithlovehope's picture

Submitted by Faithlovehope on Tue, 10/02/2018 - 11:09am

I agreee that’s definitely weird and she seems jealous. Dont let it get to you.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Tue, 10/02/2018 - 11:53am

Wouldnt it be cool if all your dad's kids look like me and him?

Ew!

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Submitted by beebeel on Tue, 10/02/2018 - 12:01pm

It has little to do with bm wanting your husband, I would bet. She eliminated you from your SD's family with that little fantasy. She eliminated you from your own child's family. She was reinforcing a repeated message to her daughter that you are a nobody and not family.

And my guess? Your SD wanted you to see that message and the picture was just bait.

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Tue, 10/02/2018 - 12:28pm

It's distrubing... I'm pretty sure it's some kind of narcisisstic power play on her part... she thinks that if she convinces SD that the baby should look like her, it'll uninclude you somehow. She's messed in the head to think that will actually work...