So - update: The b!tch is back. Feral Forger showed up last Thursday (today being Wednesday thats almost a week ago for clarification).

She's been locked up in a hospital phsych ward under a 5150 order. And she's showed up last week, but for some reason Toxic Troll, HCGUBM did not think it worthwhile enough to mention. Not to Munchkin SD13 nor DH, the people it really affects.

After all the promises she made to Munchkin about her getting the room, all the promises of eviction, protection etc. Feral Forger just shows up and its business as usual (no tough love, its all enabling, but at least shes safe somewhere...somewhere that is NOT MY HOME). I heard there were threats of calling police and there were some harsh words. But apparently Tweedle (ex BF who used to drink and do drugs and was homeles and jobless so she kicked him out, but hes now back in a limited unknown form...) took Feral Forger to her job last night. Like the puppy he is, hoping to get back into everyones good graces.

Poor Munchkin! Ive asked her if she can find forgiveness for Tweedle and she said no, not comfortable with him, no forgiveness, he called my mom the c word and hit her. So shes in for some anxiety.

Also, the days were Somehow mixed up, because the calendar shifts so much with trading days and such, that yesterday (Tuesday) was supposed to be Toxic Trolls, but Munchkin wasnt "ready quite yet to be there", so TT made certain to emphasize that shes "giving us " a day. So generous. Why not just tack a day on the back end? No - this Mother of the Year  award hopeful negotiated DOWN not UP. On a  holiday weekend no less. Must be hoping to score some dates with working dudes who have time free memorial day. Forget about extra time with kiddo. Its only important when its convenient.

I made certain to give Munchkin a big hug, "i love you, and im really glad you spent an 'extra day' with us". Even though not really. I normally dont say the "s" word but you cant fix stupid. And there is no "motherly chip" to be installed with software already downloaded, you either have that or you dont and fake it for extra money and support.