I'm a long time lurker on the site. Cannot begin to tell you how much help this has been to me through my parenting/step parenting process!

I also regularly follow Shit My BM Says on FB (again, just so good to realize I am *not* alone in what I'm going through and dealing with and find insights on how to deal and disengage!) and I just noticed that shitmybmsays blog is gone and the FB page is gone too. I'm delurking to check if anyone knows what happened and if she's okay? She's pregnant and I know she was having a tough time of it for a while but seemed to be getting through that. Just hope everything is okay.