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BM's new DH being an ass

Choosingtolove's picture

DH went to pick up SS7 from his VERY short stay with them (was supposed to be 10 days, reduced to 3).
BM's new DH was there for the first time in almost a year, since he threatened DH in fact.
He made a big show of noting that they bought SS7 Abercrombie kids clothing over the visit ... as if that would make up for the fact that they deliberately decided not to take SS7 to his specialist appt.
THEN he went on to note that SS7 is NOW wearing size 7 clothing ... as if we don't know what size clothing he wears since he lives with us all the time ...

the implication being of course that we don't properly care for SS7.

The ironic part? SS7 wears size 8 when he's with us because when he's with us he eats properly and weighs 70lbs ... when he's with them however he doesn't eat properly and loses 5lbs each time, putting him in the size 7 jean category ... which of course they don't clue into ...

so by telling us that SS7 is in size 7 pants he's basically putting the cherry on top of the neglectful parent sunday by pointing out another shortcoming ...

but hey ... he showed us!!!

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Choosingtolove's picture

We did the visitation sched. In August when the school sched came out... She knew which days were hers but so far for every one of the. She's handed back early as she books trips that overlap... Personally I'd book around the visits but to each their own I guess.... I find it interesting that they feel the need to. Lint stuff like that out as we did nt point out they were costing us $60 by dropping him off early as we didnt book vacation time, assuming she would use her time with him so had to send hi. To the sitters with BS4 and BD1

Choosingtolove's picture

We weight him Monday's to check his weight. He's on medication which can cause him not treat so if we don't remind him he doesn't... This is our way of knowing if a. Education is working or if it's too much for his system... Otherwise no, we wouldn't t know how much he weighs after each visit...he gets weighted wether he's gone for a visit or not

Anywho78's picture

Nasty does this too "So you know, SS/SD really LOVES eating A, is wearing B size in jeans now & really NEEDS C!"...this happens after her ONE annual visit with the Skids that has never lasted for more than 6 days...yes Nasty, thank you for that...any other MOTY tidbits you wish to share today? No? Good, then STFU please.

Simply laughable!