1) He still hasn't filed for CS (after going on 3 years of us having FULL custody), yet I feel indebted to his children forever because I have to live with them. He just had to call me from the psychiatrists office to ask what the major incident was that finally led up to SD being sent to the behavioral health facility (which was her trying to get SS10 and nephew 4 to touch her breasts) but yet BM doesn't have to do ANYTHING for HER kids. 2) Whenever we do things together, I'm the only one not in our pictures because he "just doesn't think to take any pictures". Yet, I've seen how many pictures he has taken of her, and it is plenty. Matter of fact, there is a box of them in the garage... still... to... this... day! (Keeping them for his kids of, course). I wish I had had some foresight into what it is like to be #2. If I ever have a daughter, I am going to do my absolute best to push her in the direction of a man without a past that he has to drag around with him. Rant over. Sorry for this little outburst.